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My Worries About the New School Year

My Worries About the New School Year

I’ve come to realize that the most destructive thing about worry is keeping it bottled inside your head. Where is can continue to swirl around. Like laundry that’s been in the washing machine too long and is beginning to sour. It’s much better to get 

An Honest Conversation about the College Experience and Finding a Job after Graduation

An Honest Conversation about the College Experience and Finding a Job after Graduation

As my senior year is fast approaching, I have been thinking a lot about my overall college experience, graduation, and trying to find my first full-time job. In an effort to talk these thoughts through, I had a conversation with my recently graduated friend, Anne, 

July Book Review

July Book Review

In June, I tried to create a regular habit of reading. You may recall that that didn’t go too well. I ended up only reading one book.

But, the goal of the project wasn’t just to read more in June, but to create a habit of reading a little bit every day. So, I carried that principle into the month of July and ended up completing three books this month!

All of them were very interesting and enjoyable reads, so I’ll elaborate on each of them briefly in reverse chronological order by date published, in case you’re interested in reading one of them yourself.

Spotify Teardown: Inside the Black Box of Streaming Music

Anna Johansson, Maria Eriksson, Patrick Vonderau, Pelle Snickars, and Rasmus Fleischer – 2019

I first heard about this book on an episode of Freakonomics and as an amateur music enthusiast, I was intrigued. The book posits itself as an “interventionist ethnography”. Which I suppose is a fancy way of saying “we’re trying to study this from the outside looking in since we can’t get on the inside but we’re also not afraid to disrupt things and try to crack the black box to see how this company works” (if that even makes any sense).

In the book, the authors and researchers show how Spotify has gone from a service centered on the search box and a fully autonomous user, to viewing the user as someone in need of guidance and recommendations in sorting through so much music (aka Discover Weekly and mood-based playlists). It also challenges entire idea of music in the digital age. What qualifies? How should we categorize ambient music or white noise?

All in all, the book was very interesting and helped me to better understand how digital streaming services work. But there is a definite progressive ideology that comes along with some of the ideas promulgated in the book, so take it with a grain of salt.

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Stephen Covey – 1989

Conversely, there are definite conservative and Christian principles underlying this book. That being said, I think the author does a good job of making the philosophy outlined within applicable to anyone regardless of political ideology or religion.

The core premise of the book is that a person must first discover, articulate, and become grounded in his/her own personal values before being able to be a successful collaborator with others. Reading the book is one reason why I decided to create my own personal mission statement (and I recommend you do it too!)

Overall, some of the terminology fabricated to fit concepts in the book can be a bit hokey but the underlying principles are extremely relevant and necessary. I think this is one self-help book that will actually truly help you. And it’s a pretty quick read too.

The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin

Benjamin Franklin – 1791

This was by far my favorite book out of the three that I read this month. And it lines up with my thinking that books that have withstood the test of time are the best books.

This may sound cheesy, but it honestly offers timeless practical wisdom about how best to live your life and better yourself. Franklin was clearly always concerned with self-improvement and the improvement of society. And in his autobiography he actually details how he became a better writer (by paraphrasing articles from the Spectator and later transforming them into poetic verse), a more disciplined person (by setting up weekly standards for proper behavior), and a celebrated statesman (not by campaigning or seeking power but letting his credentials and reputation speak for themselves).

And maybe I’m just extremely ignorant but I had no idea that he came up with the idea for volunteer fire departments, street sweeping systems, and was instrumental in gathering public support for the creation of hospitals until I read this book.

If there’s any book you read off of this list, seriously, let it be this one.

A Note on Notetaking

One of the goals on my anti-bucket list was to take notes on all of the books that I read for a month. And I seriously tried to do that this month.

I tried to first read a chapter in full without taking any notes. Then, the next day I skimmed back over the chapter and jotted down crucial concepts before moving on to the next chapter.

I found this strategy kept me present in the moment of reading and helped me digest and better identify the larger themes the next day based on what I remembered best.

I’m not sure if I’ll continue with this strategy or try to find another in the future, but I definitely want to continue taking notes.

August Progress Goal: Math

August Progress Goal: Math

So, last fall semester I was thinking about taking some classes in computational linguistics (think the programs that make Siri and Alexa work or give you the autofill function in Gmail). The thing is you need some solid math skills for these classes. So, I 

What Drives Me

What Drives Me

Running Away, Running Towards Since middle school, I’ve struggled on and off with intrusive and depressive thoughts. Eventually, after some indeterminate period of time they would always go away. I would feel unburdened and like myself again. But at the back of my mind there 

The Fastest Way to Achieve Your Goal…

The Fastest Way to Achieve Your Goal…

is to slowly chip away at it.

Expect failure but keep going anyway. Like with exercise, to get good at anything, you have to put in your reps. You have to push until you think you will give up and then give that extra 5%, because that is where the true growth comes. By tearing those muscle fibers, they are built up and become stronger.

You can apply this concept to any goal. Break it down into small chunks and commit to completing those mini-milestones. Exert yourself slightly beyond your current ability each time.

If you do this, there is simply no limit to how far you can go and what you can accomplish.

The Importance of Love

The Importance of Love

For a while now I have been thinking about the dynamics of today’s society and their impacts on social relationships. We move away from home at the age of eighteen, often far away. We strive to obtain demanding jobs and work long hours to impress 

I Was Wrong about Skateboarding

I Was Wrong about Skateboarding

It seems like this is the month of admitting that I’m wrong about everything. There is something beautiful about being wrong and expanding your mind to possibilities you had previously not been able to imagine. But, enough waxing poetic, what was I wrong about this 

I Will Not Quit on Myself

I Will Not Quit on Myself

On June 24th before I launched this blog, when I was still having some doubts about even creating it or putting it out into the world in the first place I wrote this message to myself as motivation:

I will not quit on myself. I will do all the things I fricking want to. I will not give up, I will continue. I will accomplish my goals. I will be my own person. I will do things. I will not be stopped by myself. I will kill myself. I will kill the old me, I will be a new person. I will overcome. I will help people; I will not focus so much on myself. I will be happy no matter what. I will find a sense of joy.

not give up, I will continue. I will accomplish my goals. I will be my own person. I will do things. I will not be stopped by myself. I will kill myself. I will kill the old me, I will be a new person. I will overcome. I will help people; I will not focus so much on myself. I will be happy no matter what. I will find a sense of joy.

So, even though it’s 2:30am and my friends are visiting and I’m tired, I want to honor this commitment I made to myself and continue to post articles twice a week. But I don’t want this post to be a cop-out either or just for the sake of posting something.

I want to talk about a personal mission statement I’ve been developing.

In the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey highlights the importance of being a principle-centered and developing your own personalized mission statement. Once you clarify your principles through a written mission statement, it becomes easier to make the tough decisions and to live with integrity because you have a hand-crafted purpose for yourself.

I already have some principles for the blog. But, I have also been creating a mission statement for my personal life. This is what I have so far:

I will be better today than I was yesterday

Joy only comes through pain

I will challenge myself and put myself through pain until nothing can hurt me

I will continually ask “what if?”

The only failure is giving up

I will not quit

I will hold myself to a higher standard

I will be kind to everyone but tough on myself

I will think things through deeply and carefully

I will value my health, my body, my mind, my spirit

I will never stop learning

I am responsible for my response

I will remain positive

I will put my family above myself

I will contribute without being asked

I will be grateful

I will be a positive force in my family, among my friends, in my community

I will be completely present in conversation

I will lead by example

I will anticipate and plan for the worst*

7/13/2019

If you are interested in creating your own mission statement, here are some things to keep in mind: It is important to focus on all of your various roles (student/employee, child, sibling, friend, community member, parent) in your mission statement. Try to envision the person you want to be known as when you are 90 years old, or when you are dead. Picture the things that you know you should be doing but often neglect. For more inspiration and to help craft your own mission statement, I recommend you check out www.franklincovey.com/MSB.

*This is my ideal version of myself. Of course, I do not live up to it most of the time, but I will still strive to be better every day. I fail at it most days but I will not quit on myself.

I Was Wrong About Life

I Was Wrong About Life

When I first decided to create this blog, I drafted up a short description of what I wanted it to be about. You can find that description in the sidebar on the home page. The first line in this description was as follows: Humans have